This year I was lucky enough to have my good friend, (*and brain sharer), Meredith from Retrodiva’s Beauty move down to Dallas, which is only 3hrs away from me. This means I get to see her more often, and we get to discover all kinds of things in Big D.
This time we went Asian goodie shopping, including a trip to Daiso, which is like an Asian dollar store, on the rec of G, from Nouveau Cheap, whose rec’s I can take to the bank without hesitation. Then we also went over to TonyMoly, which you may recognize from seeing it at Urban Outfitters, and picked up some skincare stuff, too.
And we spend a lot of time telling you about what we got, because we talk a lot. Which we do when we are together, so, go get you a cup of something good and settle in for a sit, while we show you what we picked up, and talk about whatever comes up.
I know it is hard to believe, but another year has passed and it is already “International Paula Day” once again. This time, I am celebrating my 45th birthday. So, I wanted to take this time to reflect on what makes me happy, and a very lucky girl this time around. And to encourage all of you to celebrate IPD by noting what makes you happy right now, too.
I think acknowledging the good in times of darkness is a very necessary endeavor and I hope you spare a moment during your IPD celebrations to be know that being happy is what it is all about.
Now get out there and celebrate accordingly! Cheers!
This week was a typical week – work, school, sleep – with just a couple of big changes. The biggest for me was that I had my hair cut off. This is my Before/After, to see how much of a change the haircut made:
And, yeah, the after is all nice and straight, but, like anytime you go to the salon, it will not look like that after you get home. In fact, my intention is to wear it messy, wavy, casual as much as possible because, 1) lazy and 2) style. But, mostly lazy, not gonna lie.
I also want to comment that it was really cool of KMS California for arranging the training for the folks here in town at Duncan Brothers Salon, that was led by their International Stylist, Simon Miller. (*How adorable are Simon, Rebekah and I? I *told* you he had an amazing beard!)
So, now I have to finagle the finer details of fixing it on the daily. And I have one big question – how do I refresh my curls/waves on the daily, without washing my hair every day, because that is NOT happening.
Hi again! This time I’m talking about how we edit our lives for online consumption. We all do, it’s a fact of (online) life. Hell, it’s even a fact of IRL life, too. Because, really – do you know everything about your coworker, and vice versa to you? I also talk about how we need to be nice to people, because, since we don’t know everything about what is going on with them, they deserve our patience. And I finish up with a challenge to you, and myself, to try and reign in our frustration this week, and be nicer to people. Let’s see how that works out.
There are three things people of color can never understand about Caucasian culture:
1. The way you let your children talk to you.
2. Why y’all don’t use washcloths.
3. What you wear to church.
What? What do you mean white people don’t use washcloths? This is sincerely news to me. It must definitely be a cultural or a geographical issue, because we definitely use them around here. And, me, growing up in my white, suburban bubble never even knew it was a thing. Like, it just never occurred to me that not everyone uses washcloths.
So, I made a video about my shock and disbelief, while yelling at you about using those nasty plastic loofahs. Enjoy.